Conversation Blunders and How to Avoid Them

The most significant errors in our conversations are, of course, the violation of the general principles of communication. These include talking about topics that are considered taboo, talking about someone else behind his back, and is based on stories of exaggerations, or worse, lies. However, these can only stumbling blocks are when we engage in conversations with other people. There are also so-called mechanical errors, often the result of not thinking seriously about what we are talking, neglect, or not to keep an eye on our conversation skills. Here are some common mistakes technical conversation. Error 1: Using pet words, regardless of their suitability for the issue or situation, there are people who call everything as' fabulous', 'cute' or 'Darling things, and do not like to call "strange ',' boring ', or' unpleasant '. There are no words to describe certain things. A building is not very nice, a film can not be terrible, a book can not be strange, a restaurant can not be a treasure. Use the words correctly. Also, if you're one of those people who use words of the company much, try to reduce their usage to a minimum. Being aware of things that are coming out of his mouth. It can be very annoying. Error 2: big words wrong You met people like this already - who likes to use superfluous words and phrases (probably to make a good impression). There are also those who seem to enjoy using words like 'bottom', 'reality', so to speak ',' sa ', so out of their system. Not only are unnecessary, are also time and effort. Error 3: exaggerating a lot of us are guilty of this. We tend to introduce our story with "Let me tell you the strangest thing I've experienced" or "This is the most incredible thing I've ever seen." Although such statements are subjective and are entitled to them, we also believe that the other person in the conversation. Maybe not, not for him or her, and if so, the time it was created, has had the effect you need. Get Real. Error 4: How too many employees do not have to serve all the dirt in your life just to attract attention at a party. People naturally are going to listen if it makes sense, because you're giving fodder for gossip. To say much of yourself naked is the soul of a group of strangers. Very good to be true about her feelings, but is too embarrassed to reveal, because I do not know how others react to their stories. It could lead to his downfall and has no one to blame but themselves. Error 5: Too much slang. If you're talking in English, using correct English. Do not bastardize the language and jargon pepper. You can only use slang if people around you speak the same way. But if you're in a group with people of diverse backgrounds and interests, slang is not appropriate. Speak in a way that is understood by all to avoid a possible conflict. Michael Lee is the author of How to Be a Red Hot Persuasion Wizard ... in 20 days or less, an ebook that reveals the mind-altering persuasion techniques on how to greatly improve your relationships, create unlimited wealth, and get all you want ... like magic. Get a sample chapter and highly-stimulating "Get What You Want" advice http://www.20daypersuasion.com. He is the co-founder http://www.self-improvement-millionaires.com and licensed as Certified Public Accountant.